Most situations in life are created for a reason. Take a good look at your own life and observe how people are serving you. Find out why they are serving you. Is it because you are a victim, or is that you need conflict to function? If they are serving you in a negative way to create a positive effect, then perhaps it is time to free them of this obligation. If you do not release the beliefs inside of you that are causing the situation, you will replace it with one that is much the same.