To fall completely in love, you must be able to trust someone. Trust is something that’s earned. We start with what we think is possible in a romantic situation, but as soon as we begin to grow close to someone, we start to fight. As soon as we start you start to fight, we pull away. We use fighting as a way to avoid becoming incredibly close to our partners. As long as we are fighting, they do not have the ability to get to know us fully.If you start believing that you can trust, that you know who to trust, and when to trust, and you are in the wrong relationship, things will change. If you work on yourself and you are in a relationship where someone truly loves you, things are going to change. You not only have to be able to know what you want but also how to find it.